I recently met a man, and though I've only known him for two weeks now, I like him.

I've had bad luck with nearly all relationships, men disappointing me in different ways and it really upsets me because I want to find that 'perfect' person for me, settle down, marry and be happy.

This new man is outgoing, handsome and though he hasn't achieved much in his life, I want to believe that he's genuine and good but I've become wary and suspicious of men. Am I just being used, or is there hope for us? - Ithika, South Africa

Graham says ... I see the right man for you has striking eyes as his main feature.