I have been having problems in my marriage and wondered what the future holds for us. Life has been very stressful since losing my mum nearly two years ago. - Claire, Bromley

Graham says ... I feel your mum is trying hard to think how to help you, so if you send a thought out to her you will get an answer the next morning.

Try longer with the marriage as although it is hard work it is worth it.

Although your mum moved on two years ago I sense Aug 2005 was when it hit home harder, but you will feel better now as time goes on.