I have a difficult choice to make. I have been made a lucrative work offer overseas which sounds very good, but I have a life here in London with a very special women in my life.

I'm not sure whether I should chase after the career issue or remain here with someone with whom I will never have the chance of meeting again if I move off into the wide-blue yonder. - Robert, Blackheath

Graham says ... The work offer is good, but the relationship is more important, and the work will not work out if you are unhappy.