I would like to know if I'm going crazy? I have been in a relationship for quite some time now and am not 100 per cent sure if he is the one for me. What do you think? - Victoria, Melbourne

Graham says ... I sense you are very actractive so it would be difficult for you to be sure that your partner's feelings are deeper than that.

I also feel he has some annoying habits which dampen your feelings.

Bear in mind if you ask a good medium we will always be able to find the best man out of the billion bachelors out there so obviously by chance you won't have found that guy.

But if you stay together I feel you will be fulfilled sexually, and have two children, and be happy.