After losing my husband to a long chronic illness, I am now involved with a man who has been a friend for 20 years. I feel like this is where I belong. What does the future hold for us? - Robin Lay, USA
Graham says ... I feel your future is relaxed with your new man, but the stress of the passing is still there.
I see you being with your new man for at least 13 years.
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